No Riding Alone

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Rule #1 (and it’s the only rule): NO RIDING ALONE ON THIS LIFE-LONG ROLLERCOASTER!

Seriously, before I provide my routine-confession, let me pose a quick question: Have you ever read an article or book (OR BLOG) and in that particular moment, the content was SO ON POINT with your life, making it almost feel like you wrote it?  Or instead of you writing it, you felt like someone just pulled your card & read everything in your mental-inbox?

I know I ain’t the only weird person who’s felt that way before!  Maybe once or twice you quote a person & GIVE THEM CREDIT, then after awhile you begin to say, “I’ve always said…!”  Yo, preachers do it all the time.  It’s like they’ll hear a sermon one day and enjoy it so much that the next time up, they’re preaching that meaningful message as if it came from on High!   

For the record, let me just say there will be NO BITING HERE (well, I don’t have any intentions on BITING)!  

I think it’s proper to give credit where credit is due because we’re not on this life-journey alone (although it often feels that way).  There’s so much to learn from so many that only a FOOL would try to have all the answers and take all the credit!

I have a GREAT & DEAR FRIEND who decided to give my wife and I some love on his blog yesterday (http://www.blackinformant.com…good lookin out Duane)!  The kindness he showed us along with an additional blog I read this evening(from someone whom I’ve never met) helped me regain the healthy perspective I needed to close out the day with my FAM.  The timing of the two couldn’t have been MORE PERFECT!  God truly is the best at “restoring the soul!

The 2nd blog is from a pastor in Charlotte, NC (the Queen city baby) Pastor Steven Furtick who’s the lead guy at Elevation Church.  He had a recent blog (see below or check him out at  http://www.stevenfurtick.com/) that absolutely NAILED IT for me this evening.  It was the right message for the right perspective…THANKS A LOT BRUH!!!

What’s interesting is that I may never get to meet Steve (I hope to, but there’s no guarantees).  For that matter, I may never get to see my good friend Duane again (I DEFINITELY hope to see he and his beautiful family again, but there’s no guarantees).  The bottom line is we’re part of a family…God’s family, which is growing across the globe with every passing moment.  Now is the perfect time to lock arms with some folkz and enjoy the ride…it was never meant to be done alone!

enjoy

After…Then

March 18th, 2009

John 2:22
After he was raised from the dead, his disciples recalled what he had said. Then they believed the Scripture and the words that Jesus had spoken.

Jesus offended the religious professionals by claiming that He would destroy the temple and rebuild it in three days.
His opponents didn’t understand His deeper meaning, and apparently, even His disciples didn’t comprehend His intention-
Until after His resurrection…
Then they believed.

Sometimes we don’t/can’t/won’t know what God is up to until afterthen.

After the throbbing of a painful trial subsides…
then we’ll appreciate the maturity that God wrought through our hurt.

After the dust from a devastating loss starts to settle…
then we’ll perceive that God had to take something valuable from us to get something of greater value to us.

After trusting God in a seemingly illogical leap of blind faith…
then we’ll clearly ascertain that He had the route mapped out before the journey ever began.

It’s easier to believe the promises of the resurrected Jesus
than the crucified Christ.
It’s easier to see God in the after-effects of our obedience
than the present-tense of our struggle.

Least of These…

Feeding Homeless

“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’” Matthew 25:40 (TNIV)

 If there’s ever been a season in my lifetime where the “least of these” should warrant attention and effort (ESPECIALLY FROM THE CHURCH) it’s RIGHT NOW.  Just listen to the news or drive a few miles around any major city.  Before long, the results of a struggling economy and its effects on businesses and families become obvious.  In fact, The National Center on Family Homelessness just released their report this past week showing that in the midst of white-collar executives begging for bailouts there’s 1.5 million kids in OUR COUNTRY homeless.

 Is that not CRAZY?  We’re the richest and most advanced country on the planet and yet each night (despite the weather conditions) close to 2 million of OUR children are homeless!  The study is very detailed and provoking (go to www.homelesschildrenamerica.org for more info and to view state by state results).  I found it interesting to see how poor my state (Georgia) treats this epidemic (of the 58,397 homeless children in GA, close to 51,000 are eighth grade and younger).

 The past few days, I’ve had a growing-concern for the homeless.  I’ll admit that over the years it hasn’t been a direct concern of mine because I don’t know one child that’s homeless.  Needless to say, it’s one of those issues that fall into the category of “things to do if I ruled the world” (along with curing cancer, fixing the ozone layer, and capturing Osama Bin Laden)!

 A week ago, I had the privilege to accompany a good friend who’s preparing for a huge evangelistic effort (at the end of March) to assist the less fortunate in the city of Baltimore, Maryland (www.bcmd.org/uncharted).  Part of the planning was to join a couple of churches with their youth groups in downtown Washington, DC to feed the homeless.  To say I was moved would be a gross understatement.

 This was one of those experiences where I had to rethink how I was personally doing life.  The experience made me aware to how fortunate my life has been and what’s more provoking, how much I actually WASTE!  I felt like the biggest baldhead-HYPOCRITE considering the amount of money I BLOW on fast food and items of clothes I wear ONCE or TWICE.  After every conversation, I’d silently ask myself, “Dula, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?  Not only can I do more, ME & MINES (which is a ghetto way of saying “my family and I”) WILL BE DOING MORE!!!

 Let it be known, we didn’t encounter a lot of homeless children during our relatively short stay in the park at the corners of K & 14th streets.  However, we did connect with several individuals (mostly men) who made some poor choices and had the humility to admit it (most of whom were younger than 40)!  None of these men made plans while they were children to grow up one day and live on the streets.  I wonder how easy or difficult it might be for a child who has experienced homelessness accept or reject it as an adult?

 All in all, there weren’t any camera-crews from the local media airing our efforts.  No writers from major magazines joined us.  Didn’t have any representation from the government (although we were within MINUTES from the White House).  Yet, I believe with all the compassion and love that was shown, we were able to provide the kind of representation “to the least of these” that would both make Christ known as well as make Him proud.

Feeding homeless

GREAT SERVICE & FUN AFTERNOON

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Today turned out to be a much better day than I anticipated. With Saturday night’s forecast for pending snow, I assumed Sunday would be “more rain than snow” which would only frustrate my son, Myles (who loves being outside).

After seeing the rain when I woke up, I just knew I was in for a pretty dreary & boring day.  Unlike most cold & wet Sunday mornings, Myles and I braved the air & moisture making our way to church.  What a service!!!  In fact, this series has been simply perfect in timing (check it out @ www.northpoint.org and then go to the sermons section).

We leave service and to Myles’ delight, the largest snow flakes I’ve seen in Atlanta in quite sometime began to fall for several minutes.  My little “out-doors-man” couldn’t wait to get home.  I figured 30-45 minutes was enough (considering his runny-nose and soaked pants).

A cold evening capped what has been a really good Sunday.